One of the things that can change as we get older, is our colours. For most of us, our colours change with each decade. What you could wear when you were 40 you often cannot wear when your 50 or 60. BUT, you may well be able to wear it again when you hit 70!
Care for Yourself; you are the most important person in your life and not doing what needs to be done to maintain your mental, physical and emotional health is a crime against the life you have been given. Harsh? I don’t think so. There are times when it’s necessary to call a spade a spade!