When you’re younger, you can eat what you like, drink what you like, still climb in to your 24-inch-waist trousers and zip them closed.
Then you reach that age of 50, 51, and the rest, and your muscles give up; they wave a little white flag and with no warning they surrender, and you’re suddenly invisible.
Besides many of the obvious physical changes, there’s also the mental and emotional changes which left me questioning what on earth I had been doing for the previous 40 years?!
Good grief! What had happened, in such a short period of time? More importantly, what was I going to have to deal with for the next 40-odd years?
A question that didn’t matter before.
I was looking for change. The right change.
But I couldn’t be sure what to change into …
My Mother’s to Blame!
In our mother’s era, women were old at 50 and they were happy to fade into obscurity and ‘grannydom’, because there was very little else on offer.
Today, if we choose, we can wear eyelash extensions and behave outrageously, which is just another form of disgracefully, but you may still hear Mother’s voice in the back of your head telling you to Age Gracefully! Although mine always maintained she was Aging Disgracefully …
They say that nothing is more beautiful than a woman with self-confidence.
Except, of course, a self-confident woman aging disgracefully … with an Attitude
Over the years, I have discovered that there are many women who move into menopause and find themselves friendless. Their families try to avoid them and they often feel lonely and unloved and unwanted. Need I say, this doesn’t just apply to menopause; as we move through the years, we are in a constant flux […]
Like me, you probably know all this; whether you believe it or apply it is another matter. All these items are key to my own learning to fly; perhaps they can be of help to you too?!
This is a short but sweet blog about aging and making sure it’s about Attitude and Aging Disgracefully …
If you’re like me and you wear reading glasses, or you wear sunglasses, and you constantly lose them because you either keep them on your head or down the front of your t-shirt, you bend over, they’re gone, and you never find them again … Then you need what I call a SpecsThing; this is […]
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About Penelope Whiteley
Author, Speaker and Aging Disgracefully with Attitude, Penelope Whiteley’s presentations, books, DVDs & CDs, help and guide women over 50 to reinvent themselves mentally, physically & emotionally; and to design their own personal style, find their own voice again, rediscover or find their passion & step out as strong confident women.